It is normal to want to love another person and have them love you back. There is nothing better in this world than to have someone to love and to be loved. It takes hard work, dedication and efforts to make a relationship work.It is because of these reasons that why most relationships fail. Some people are less involved than you are and behave as if they are emotionally handicapped.

You sometimes reach a point in a relationship where you tend to blame yourself and try to change yourself or the person you love.  But, the wise thing to know is that if you really love someone, no change is required from either side.However, this is an ideal scenario. In trying to change yourself or the person you love, the relationship comes to a toxic standstill and the love fades away.

There is nothing more devastating than to know that the person you love doesn’t love you anymore, especially when you have been together for a long time. However, what is the most important is to acknowledge this end and not let it shatter you anymore than it already has.

Here are certain ways to deal with the faded love:

  • Be practical:
    It is human nature to be emotional after heartbreak but, it is very important that you think about things rationally and practically. You have to do what is best for you without getting biased with your emotions. You should try to not waste your mental and emotional energy and try to make sane decisions that will help you.
  • Be selfish:
    That can be a mean thing to say but, honestly, if you are ready to give everything you have in a relationship, then make sure that you are selfish enough to take exactly that much from it too. It is okay to be selfish when you are in love because the only thing more important than someone else loving you is to love yourself. If that calls for being selfish, then be it.
  • Being alone is not being lonely:


One of the most important things to know is that there is nothing wrong in being alone. In fact, it is one of the most liberating feelings in the world. You can be independent and carefree when you are alone. So, don’t ever take this as a negative point because it isn’t. Be comfortable with yourself and learn to enjoy your company. Do things that make you happy.

  • Be positive:
    It is very important that you stay positive in life no matter what happens because it influences your decisions more than you can imagine. You should surround yourself with people that are trying to build their life in the best and the happiest way possible. This will give you the willingness to do the same for you. The moment you start to miss someone, remember that they are already gone.You have to remember that you shouldn’t let the heart that didn’t love you keep you from the one that will.